3 ways to figure out if the guy you're dating is a loser


  So by now I’ve learned that not every guy I meet is going to be Prince Charming. Still, it’s so hard to tell who will be the perfect gentleman and who will be the one  to break your heart. Luckily for you, I’ve come up with three (almost completely) foolproof rules to help you tell the difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Run-away-From-Him-Right-Now-Please. These rules are based on personal experience (and I’m not even kidding, they’ve turned out to be true every time.) Here goes:

1) He gives you a nickname before you two have even gotten to know each other. Said nicknames can include (but are certainly not limited to) cutie, sweetheart, honey, babe, etc. If he’s not making an effort to remember your name, then he’s just not worth it. It also makes you wonder if he’s trying to avoid mixing up your name with the names of all the other girls he’s sending those adorable little texts to…

2) He brags about how he goes to the gym and works out all the time. Seriously? Girls are not blind; we can tell whether the guy has a body or not. Any dude who boasts about how much he exercises is, let’s be honest, a bit of a creep. (See above picture.)

3) He doesn’t ask you for your phone number. If a guy really likes you, he’ll risk a painful rejection to talk to you and get your number. If he asks one of your friends for it or, worse, if he finds some cutesy way of taking your phone and typing in his number himself, he’s bad news.

  Okay, so there you have it. They’re pretty reliable rules, and if a guy does one of the three there’s a good chance he’ll do the other two as well. Has someone like this ever approached you? And if so, was he a heartbreaker/loser/creep? Tell me what y’all think.

Peace,
KT :)